2026 Life Reset: Embracing the "Soft Baddie" Within while Minding Our MFing Business
In this episode, We (Elizabeth and Weeze) navigate the "in-between-ness" of the new year, reflecting on the intensity of 2025 and why our new years reset of 2026 is centered on tranquility and minding our mfing business. Our conversation kicks off with a deep dive into the most "delicious" pop culture moment of the year: Anthony Joshua rocking Jake Paul’s world (and his serratus anterior). From there, we discuss the necessity of "playground etiquette," why we are uninviting people from our Worlds, and our transition from our "Girl Boss" eras to rooting more deeply into our Quiet Community arc.
In this episode we discuss:
- The "Space-Time Continuum": Navigating the lawless "in-between" period at the end of the year.
- The Anthony Joshua vs. Jake Paul Fight: Analyzing the "delicious" downfall of the influencer-boxer.
- The "Boxing Muscle": An appreciation for the serratus anterior and Anthony Joshua’s physique.
- The "40-Year-Old Portal": Reclaiming power and setting radical boundaries after hitting 40.
- "Nice" vs. "Kind": Distinguishing between performative politeness and authentic, boundary-led kindness.
- Minding Your MFing Business: Releasing the urge to over-hold, manage, or meddle in others' problems.
-Quiet Community: Divesting from "Girl Boss" culture in favor of local, unposted acts of service.
- 2026: The Year of Tranquility: Establishing a "still pond" mindset where anything that creates a ripple is a "no."
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:47 The Space-Time Continuum
04:17 Favorite Moment of 2025 - Anthony Joshua rocking Jake Paul
05:43 Soul-snatching: Speaking energy work and the "unseen realms"
08:31 Anatomy Talk: The serratus anterior
10:35 Shift in the Continuum: Closing the old portal for a new 2026
12:50 2025 Retrospective: Why the year "had hands" and "smoke"
15:45 Intensity vs. Peace: Finding aliveness in the calm
17:30 The Age 40 Portal: Radical permission and new excuses
19:52 The Proximity Audit
21:23 Being the villain and upholding boundaries
23:57 Nice vs. Kind
25:02 Communicating Capacity
27:16 2026 Theme: Minding my motherfucking business
29:15 Energy Management: Closing the 37 open tabs in the brain
32:45 Divesting from Free Labor
37:05 Normalize Playground Etiquette
40:17 New Year Focus
43:44 Quiet Community: Food rescue, community fridges, and rehumanization
48:10 Moving out of "Teaching Mode"